Fear of failure

Go back a little to leap further.
-John Clarke

 

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.
-Theodore Roosevelt

Half of the failures in life come from pulling one's horse when he is leaping.
-Thomas Hood

I failed my way to success.
-Thomas Edison

Our doubts are traitors, and make us lose the good we oft might win, by fearing to attempt.
-William Shakespeare

Every failure brings with it the seed of an equivalent success.
-Napoleon Hill 

Failure is blindness to the strategic element in events; success is readiness for instant action when the opportune moment arrives.
-Newell D. Hillis

They fail, and they alone, who have not striven.
-Thomas Bailey Aldrich

We learn wisdom from failure much more than success. We often discover what we will do, by finding out what we will not do.
                                         -Samuel Smiles

 

I was never afraid of failure, for I would sooner fail than not be among the best.
-John Keats

It is foolish to fear what you cannot avoid.
Stultum est timere quod vitare non potes.
-Publius Syrus

He that is down

I was never afraid of failure, for I would sooner fail than not be among the best.
-John Keats 

It is foolish to fear what you cannot avoid.
Stultum est timere quod vitare non potes.
-Publius Syrus

He that is down needs fear no fall.
-John Bunyan

Never let the fear of striking out get in your way.
-George Herman "Babe" Ruth

One who fears failure limits his activities.
Failure is only the opportunity to more
intelligently begin again.
-Henry Ford 

The greatest mistake you can make in life is to continually be afraid you will make one.
-Elbert Hubbard

Little minds are tamed and subdued by misfortunes; but great minds rise above them.
-Washington Irving

Our greatest glory consist not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.
-Oliver Goldsmith

Wherever we look upon this earth, the opportunities take shape within the problems.
-Nelson A. Rockefeller

What would life be if we had no courage to attempt anything?
-Vincent van Gogh

The greatest men sometimes overshoot themselves, but then their very mistakes are so many lessons of instruction.
-Tom Browne 

Experience teaches slowly, and at the cost of mistakes.
-James A. Froude

It is the want of diligence, rather than the want of means, that causes most failures.
-Alfred Mercier

A man's life is interesting primarily when he has failed--I well know.
For it's a sign that he tried to surpass himself.
-Georges Clemenceau

He who fears being conquered is sure of defeat.
-Napoleon Bonaparte

There is no failure except in no longer trying.
-Elbert Hubbard

There is no impossibility to him who stands prepared to conquer every hazard.
The fearful are the failing.
-Sarah J. Hale

Disappointments are to the soul what thunderstorms are to the air.
Johann C. F. von Schiller

                                                  

                                       Failure teaches success.
                                           Japanese Saying

Success Quotations

Along with success comes a reputation for wisdom.
-Euripides

They can because they think they can.
-Virgil

Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude.
-Thomas Jefferson

Keep steadily before you the fact that all true success depends at last upon yourself.
-Theodore T. Hunger

We are all motivated by a keen desire for praise, and the better a man is, the more he is inspired to glory.
-Cicero

Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out.
-Robert Collier

The thing always happens that you really believe in; and the belief in a thing makes it happen.
-Frank Loyd Wright

A failure is a man who has blundered, but is not able to cash in on the experience.
                                     -Elbert Hubbard

 

There is only one success--to be able to spend your life in your own way.
-Christopher Morley

Success is sweet: the sweeter if long delayed and attained through manifold struggles and defeats.
-A. Branson Alcott

The secret of success is to know something nobody else knows.
-Aristotle Onassis

The greatest results in life are usually attained by simple means and the exercise of ordinary qualities. These may for the most part be summed in these two: common-sense and perseverance.
-Owen Feltham

Failures do what is tension relieving, while winners do what is goal achieving.
-Dennis Waitley

The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength, not a lack of knowledge, but rather a lack in will.
-Vince Lombardi

I cannot give you the formula for success, but I can give you the formula for failure--which is:
Try to please everybody.
-Herbert Bayard Swope

Success does not consist in never making blunders, but in never making the same one a second time.
-Josh Billings

The secret of success in life is for a man to be ready for his opportunity when it comes.
-Earl of Beaconsfield

Success is the good fortune that comes from aspiration, desperation, perspiration and inspiration.
-Evan Esar

The surest way not to fail is to determine to succeed.
-Richard Brinsley Sheridan

If you wish success in life, make perseverance your bosom friend, experience your wise counselor, caution your elder brother, and hope your guardian genius.
-Jospeph Addison

Impatience never commanded success.
-Edwin H. Chapin

The talent of success is nothing more than doing what you can do, well.
-Henry W. Longfellow

To climb steep hills requires a slow pace at first.
-Shakespeare

Try not to become a man of success but a man of value.
-Albert Einstein

The man who makes a success of an important venture never wails for the crowd. He strikes out for himself. It takes nerve, it takes a great lot of grit; but the man that succeeds has both. Anyone can fail. The public admires the man who has enough confidence in himself to take a chance. These chances are the main things after all. The man who tries to succeed must expect to be criticized. Nothing important was ever done but the greater number consulted previously doubted the possibility. Success is the accomplishment of that which most people think can't be done.
-C. V. White

And one quote just for fun.....

If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. Then quit. There's no use being a damn fool about it.
                                                 -W.C. Fields

Motivational quation

It was a high counsel that I once heard given to a young person, "Always do what you are afraid to do." -Ralph Waldo Emerson Take calculated risks. That is quite different from being rash. -George S. Patton If you do not hope, you will not find what is beyond your hopes. -St. Clement of Alexandra We are all inventors, each sailing out on a voyage of discovery, guided each by a private chart, of which there is no duplicate. The world is all gates, all opportunities. -Ralph Waldo Emerson Seek the lofty by reading, hearing and seeing great work at some moment every day. -Thornton Wilder The only way of finding the limits of the possible is by going beyond them into the impossible. -Arthur C. Clarke Without inspiration the best powers of the mind remain dormant. There is a fuel in us which needs to be ignited with sparks. -Johann Gottfried Von Herder  We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act but a habit. -Aristotle

 

Some dreams

Daydreaming is often a disregarded and neglected aspect of dream study because they are often overlooked as fleeting and wandering thoughts. There is a lack of emphasis on the content of your daydreams. However, the meanings to your nightly dream symbols are also applicable to your daydreams.  The content in your daydreams are also helpful to the understanding of your true feelings and in fulfilling your goals.

Most dreams contain messages that serve to teach you something about yourself. However, soon after you wake up to go about your daily routine, you tend to quickly forget what you dream about. The message in recurring dreams may be so important and/or powerful that it refuses to go away. The frequent repetition of such dreams forces you to pay attention and confront the dream. It is desperately trying to tell you something.  Such dreams are often nightmarish or frightening in their content, which also helps you to take notice and pay attention to them

Recurring dreams are quite common and are often triggered by a certain life situation, transitional phase in life or a problem that keeps coming back again and again. These dreams may recur daily, once a week, or once a month. Whatever the frequency, there is little variation in the dream content itself. Such dreams may be highlighting a personal weakness, fear, or your inability to cope with something in your life - past or present

Healing dreams serve as messages for the dreamer in regards to their health. The Ancient Greeks called these dreams "prodromic". Many dream experts believe that dreams can help in avoiding potential health problems and healing when you are ill or when you are grieving. Research shows that asthma and migraine sufferers have certain types of dreams before an attack. Your bodies are able to communicate to your mind through dreams. The dreams can "tell" you that something is not quite right with your bodies even before any physical symptoms show up. Dreams of this nature may be telling the dreamer that he or she needs to go to the dentist or doctor. If you can understand the language of dreams, your dreams will serve as an invaluable early warning system. They can help inform, advise and heal.

Prophetic dreams, also referred to as precognitive or psychic dreams, are dreams that seemingly foretell the future.  One rational theory to explain this phenomenon is that your dreaming mind is able to piece together bits of information and observation that you may normally overlook or that you do not seriously consider

Positive daydreaming is healthy. It serves as a temporary escape from the demands of reality. It is also a good way to release pent up frustrations without physically acting them out. All to often you worry about your job, your family, finances, a relationship, etc. It is a way to leave the world behind and ponder about what could've been or should've been. It relieves stress, improves attitude, fosters creativity and refresh the mind, body, and spirit.

 

  

Qualites that make a persona successful

1.desire

the motivation to succeed comes from the burning desire to achieve a purpose. napoleon hill wrote,"whatever the mind to man can conceive and belive, the mind can achieve" . a young man  asked socrates the secret to success. socrates told the young man to meet him near the river the next morning. they met. socrates asked the yound mand to walk with him toward the river. when the water got up to their necks, socrates took the young man by surprise and dunked him under the water. the boy struggled to get out but socrates  was strong and held him down. when the boy started turning blue, socrates raised the boy's head out of the water. the first thing the young man did was to gasp and take a deep breath of air. socrates asked,"what did you wqant the most when you were under water?" the boy replied, you want success as intensely as you wanted air underwanter, then youb will have it . "there is no other secret.

a burning desire is the staritnt point of all accomplishment. just like a small fire cannot give much heat , a weak desire cannot produce great results.

2. commitment : try not to become a success, but rather try to become a many of value.

3.responsibility: a duty which becomes a desire will ultimately become a delight 

4.hard work: luck?  i don't know anything about luck. i've never banked on it , and i'm afraid of people who do. luck to me is something else; hard work--- and realizing what is opportunity and what isn't.

5.character: charater is the sum total of a person's values, beliefs and personality. it is reflected in our behavior and in your actions. it is not the polls or public opinion but the charater of the leader that determines the course of history. there in no twilight zone in integrity.. the road to success has many pitfalls.

5.positive believing : having a positive attitude and being motivated is a choice we make every day. living a positive life is not easy, but then neither is negative living. given a choice, i would rather go for a positive living . positive thinking helps you use your abilities to the fullest.

Obstacles to success

• ego
• fear of failure/success;lack of -esteem
• no plan
• lack of formalized goals
• life changes
• procrastination
• family respossibilities
• financial security issues
• giving up vision for promise of money
• doing too much alone
• overcomitment
• lack of commitment 
• lack of training
• lack of persistence 
• lack of priorities

Communication skill to success

Effective communication is essential in the business world. Presentations, meetings and negotiations are key. A good leader must be a good and clear communicator. Often times those who communicate well rise to the top, while those who are more uncertain remain behind. There are many methods available today to improve communication for those to whom it does not come naturally. Hypnosis and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) work to improve communication skills by tapping into the unconscious and ‘reprogramming’ the mind to focus on positive thoughts.

An ineffective communicator is one who over thinks language, presentation and message. By focusing strongly on what is coming next, the ineffective communicator often stumbles on what he/she is saying in the present. This leads to misunderstandings and an unsuccessful presentation or pitch. Nervousness, stress and uncertainty are not traits that a leader typically portrays and thus, the ineffective communicator is out of the running. By being so focused on themselves, the ineffective communicator shuts out the audience and is often unaware of their reactions.

One of the biggest reasons for it’s success is that the therapy does not involve consulting experts, buying supplements, doing rigorous physical workouts or even going on a low-carbohydrate diet, etc. Hypnotherapy for weight loss can be done by the weight watcher - at the most he or she can seek help from a professional hypnotist, though many can learn and practice hypnotherapy at home through various self-help tools available.

There is the “Visual”(V) representation where the person creates and sees pictures. This can be represented by the phrase “A picture is worth a thousand words”.

Understanding communication and how to do so effectively are highly regarded skills in most industries. Through NLP and hypnosis one can build an awareness of one’s own communication skills and abilities while gaining an understanding of others. Often a leadership programme using NLP and hypnosis can be highly effective when combined with communication courses on presentations and negotiation skills. Thus, both skill sets can be incorporated.